Happy Dating Y'all!

*sigh ok I hate dating period. That said, first, some point of view from a female perspective: I get hit on all the time in RL and SL. Not bragging but i know alot of us do. I don't know about everyone else but speaking for myself, I just do not have the time nor energy to date every single male noob who walks up and asks me out. So to risk hurting the poor things feelings (and all of you other more advanced SL'ers) I try to be nice and say hello back. Usualy this is interpreted as I am interested in this guy. NEWS FLASH: I'M NOT! Like the movie coming out....I'm Just Not That Into You!

I am looking for a man a partner to raise a family with. Speaking for most women, that is prolly what they want too. Guys' lets tell the truth ok? you just want to get laid right? I am a retired escort ok? Don't lie to me I made a ton of lindens honey so don't even TRY....


So, ladies do we just waste alot of time dating or guys do we go bankrupt hiring escorts? Well, you can if you want to but I don't recommend it. So instead, Why don't we instead limit the amount of dating that we do? We choose the right guys with the right ladies and apply these filters throughout our lives. Yes, you even can use them in RL too! Personally, my filters pick the worst possible guys for me. If anyone has a set of working filters, can you Trans them to me?

OK, that was the long version of the girl's perspective. Bottom line is: we need to reject a lot of guys who hit on us. Sorry, dont take it personally. Sometimes, we just dont want to be bothered. We may be in a hurry or have PMS. Maybe we dont like the color of your shirt. You just never know.

But we should have some rules of engagement for Second Life encounters:

Guys:
1. R-E-S-P-E-C-T! LEARN what that word means dammit! We spend a LOT of time, money, and most of all EFFORT to be pretty for you. We are not asking anything of you than you be a gentleman! (try being a female av for awhile just try, maybe you MIGHT get it??? idk)

2. READ! If our profiles say we are not looking for a relationship, guess what? We ain't playin honey! Just cos you are gorgeous ya not gonna sweet talk your way into our pants.

3. TALK! Um ah yeah sure no yeah is NOT CONVERSATION! Dont just say hello and ask her for sex! If that is all you want, hire an escort and dammit you best respect the escort too or you might be outta your lindens lol

4. Rejection is a bitch! So tuck your tail and walk away. I'm just not into you so move it along

5. DO NOT send TP invites or Friend every girl you see! *or guy for that matter lol cos its annoying as hell* God gave you 2 hands use them to either 1) cut and paste the person's name into a notepad and save it for later or 2) go old school and heaven forbid you write it down....omg!

6. Do NOT just say HELLO! and expect us to know who the hell you are talking to whether the place is busy or not. #1 we may be busy with IM or cleaning out our Inventory #2 you are NOT the only person in SL and there are other people talking too #3 we have no idea who you are talking to #4 you want to chat, either put our names at the start of the message, or use IM. But dont get annoyed if we dont respond. We really may not have noticed you so chill out.

LADIES:
1. DO NOT BE A BITCH! RESPECT! It took courage for the guy to come up and talk to you. Believe it or not they really are human beings behind that av and they do have feelings even tho they won't admit it. Dammit be NICE!

2. DONT BE A BITCH! TALK! At least acknowledge the guy's presence. Say hello back it won't kill you. After that if you cant or REALLY don't like the dude just tell them "I have to go pee" and trot along. See top of screen? Yeah way up there? Select World and Teleport Home...New invention....works great especially against annoying noobs.

3. DONT BE A BITCH! BE NICE DAMMIT! Rejection hurts. Don't give em a good ole cussin just cos they asked you out! Sheesh who are YOU? The Queen of Ferkin Sheba???? *bows in your ferkin presence* oh hell no! don't think so! Give the dude a break puhleeez! he just asked you a question. Be flattered not act like a total tard. Give the dude some dignity when he has to tuck his tail and go home. After all, even tho you may not work out on a date, you don't know what may happen later on. And you just might be glad you and that dude are friends! Poor dude....*hugs him*


Aight thats all I got on SL dating. Be well my fair peeps and Happy Dating Y'all!!!!

SL Manifesto

First I want to say that I did NOT write the following but sadly I can't give credit to the person that did. I am not sure who it was as a friend gave this to me. I thought it pretty much summed up SL tho and I totally agree with it!


We all are on Second life for different reasons. Some of us are here to enhance our real lives, some come to escape the harsh realities that we face day to day, some are here to to forget, some to remember.

No matter what the reasons we are here, we bond. We make friendships and form relationships that go beyond what we ever imagined we'd find. We laugh, we cry, we live, and we share our experiences good and bad.

We are all unique, different from each other in our own ways. None of us look the same, talk the same, or feel the same. We are individuals, yet we share this commonality... this bond. We share this world. The good, the bad, the laughs, the tears, the love, the heartache. We share it all.

We take a lot from this world. Sometimes the things that happen here affect us so deeply that they effect or first lives.

We bring different aspects to this game... this world, but the element we all bring is the Human Experience.

In this world material possession mean nothing. It does not matter what you do for a living or how much money you make. It does not matter if we are wearing hand-me-downs or the latest fashions. It does not matter what we look like or if we are tall, fat, skinny, short, dark skin, light skin. All that can be changed by the click of a button. The only thing that truly matters in our world, is how we treat one another and the words we leave.

We love, we help, and yes we even hurt each other. And we can't live in the world alone - we all need each other.

If breaking up is hard to do, why do we do it so much?

A friend gave this to me and I can't help but love it b/c it is so true. Hope you enjoy it too


HUMOR BLOG FOR: Saturday, 7/12/08 If breaking up is hard to do, why do we do it so much? by Marco, Marcophoto Upshaw

Yesterday morning, Friday 7/11, I woke up bright and early, eager to see the girl I had partnered with just two days ago. But Instead of seeing her lovely face I instead saw a notecard, "Dear Marco......" ahh shit. Yeah, one of those. A "Dear John letter addressed to me. It seems her RL husband found out about us, hit the ceiling and forced her to break off all ties with me. So while I was asleep she packed her stuff, moved out, and left me a note. What a helluva way to find out. I am done with steady gfs, this time. I really really mean it.

So ladies, Marco is available again, but not for a steady committed relationship. No, this time I am going for something shallow and fun; daily sex and no commitments.

If this appeals to you and you would like to have daily sex with me....or maybe every other day, or every third day.... let me know. If I get a high enough response, I will make up a calendar and schedule you. lol. I'm joking right? Oh of course...hhmmmm maybe. I am a male after all. A guy has to have a dream, right? Keep those cards and letters coming in girls, and I'll let you know.

I've even thought of switching to penguins for awhile, but the thought of those pointed beaks is a bit much.

One of these days I guess I ought to write a series about breaking up in sl. I've written about everything else. That might be fun. Meanwhile maybe I will write a ficticious application form we can give to prospective lovers to screen out the nutballs......and.....married people. If you have any thoughts about what to put in my "application form", please send me an IM. Let's make some lemonaide out of these lemons.

This lady is NUTS!

When you go to the website select this story as there are others:

'Second Life' Romance Ends With Real-Life Attempted Kidnapping
NBC 10 reports.
Police say a woman traveled hundreds of miles to carry out a plot against her online boyfriend.

http://video.nbc10.com/player/?id=287086



THIS LADY IS NUTS!!!!!!!!!!!!