Why are some guys such ASSHOLES and some so very sweet???

I am helping a friend w an event tomoro night from 4-6 at Drama Libre (hope to see yall there btw) and had asked a guy in my TE group to come help us out. He came highly recommended and even tho i hadn't heard him before I said sure b/c of who told me he was good.

So here i am the night before a week after my freakin Mammaw's death and that SOB just acted like he is God's gift just b/c I hadn't given him a list of songs of what we wanted played at this event. Ever hear of REAL LIFE buddy??? its a new thing just invented it my dam self.... I come to SL to escape this BS not add more to it! So he proceeds to inform me of how I should have told him a freakin MONTH AGO (a month? WTF???) what songs we want played. Uhmmmm hellooooo i believe i did that if you were listening sumbetch. I said it didn't matter as long as it wasn't all techno it would be fine!